Deep Ass Starters.

• Sometimes it's hard to get in depth with your muse and their backstory, because you can't figure out how to bring those things up with others. Here are a couple of starters intended to make things a little more personal!
• "What's holding you back?"
• "I'm not comfortable with this conversation."
• "Will you /ever/ be comfortable with this conversation?"
• "Let me in sometime!"
• "It's not that easy, you know."
• "Help me understand."
• "It's hard to connect with someone when all they do is push you away."
• "Why are you always so cold?"
• "Why are you always so happy?"
• "Are you really happy now?"
• "Who hurt you this badly to make you this way?!"
• "What, did your ex mess you up that badly?!"
• "Why do you keep fighting it any time you feel?"
• "It's a problem, I get it."
• "This is all kinds of messed up."
• "That's not exactly a good coping method."
• "So what happened, with your parents, really?"
• "What was your childhood like?"
• "Everyone has at lest a little bit of mommy/daddy issues. It's nothing to be ashamed of."
• "My parents aren't exactly perfect models, either."
• "You were bullied? What for?"
• "Was it hard? Coming out, I mean."
• "You can't just run away all the time."
• "You can't just hide all the time."
• "Are you still thinking about them?"
• "I'm not the enemy here. But this makes me wonder who the real one is for you."
• "Is the reason you're so cold and defensive because you feel threatened?"
• "How long has it been since you last spoke to them?"
• "You never talk about it, why?"
• "How come you're so different around them?"
• "It's like you don't have a care or worry in the world."
• "You seem so perfect. I don't get it."
• "What was your ex like?"
• "I don't think I was ever good enough for them."
• "Are you not comfortable being intimate?"
• "Why don't you feel comfortable being intimate?"
• "Letting someone see you that vulnerable, it's a scary thing."
• "Are you scared of being hurt?"
• "Have you ever been taken advantage of?"
• "Why are you afraid of saying I love you?"
• "I never understood how someone could say those words so easily."
• "You're hurting others the way you've been hurt in the past, don't you think that's ironic?"
• "You use people to make yourself feel better."
• "I'm scared of being used again..."
• "Losing someone isn't easy, but you're making it harder than it needs to be."
• "How long has it been since you lost them?"
• "You're too attached."
• "I'm not attached, I'm just comfortable with what I'm familiar to."
• "Maybe the real reason you're so controlling is because, deep down you'd rather have them in your grasp than lose them."
• "Why did you ever break up?" / "Why did we ever break up?"